Why do we as humans feel that we have to filter what's really coming up in the moment?
It's silly massaging the words so someone isn't offended, when in reality, we can never control how someone will take what we have to share. We're only responsible for how WE react and respond.
How many times has someone asked genuinely "Hi, how are you?" (not the fluffy I don't give a crap version) and I've said "fine" when actually I was in pain, lonely, had a burning question, pissed, in love, blissful, happy, tired or even confused?
If I was doing the asking, that would be helpful information to know if you're tired, pissed or happy. It's feedback that allows me to know "where you are" and guides the next step in the conversation.
It would be crazy for me to get upset at you because you told me you were in a cranky mood. Why? Because I ASKED THE QUESTION!
Ok and if I happen to be the only one here, then now you know how I operate. Authenticity is king. I mean sure I don't want to be dumped on. I simply want honesty and authenticity.
Which brings me to the update that happens to be on day 5 of my 90 day life design challenge.
I recorded a 3 minute video about how I'm feeling on this fine 5th morning and an a-ha about a couple of peeps that came back into my life after 2 years or so. That's what prompted the "authenticity" thing.
Authenticity is memorable because it instantly creates a deep connection. This can be either a good or bad connection. Powerful if you take this lesson and apply it to all areas of life. Comments?
Thank YOU for the space to explore my adventure called life. I know you're there. I can see you. I can feel you.
The video is here and of course if you don't see it, then you're viewing it outside www.ThomasMangum.com. Please click "View Original Post" or something like that to see it.
Comments